That's not how you use InfoPath. You don't upload the template and then have people double-click it to save somewhere else. You publish it, people click new, and then they submit or save. Why do you want people to save to their computer instead of the form library? For what it's worth, if it's a rich client form, you can tell them to just click File > Save As and then choose a spot on their local machine. You have to realize that there is a big difference between the form template (XSN) and the resulting data file (XML). They shouldn't have direct access to the XSN, because then they can change it. They should only be able to open a data XML file from the template that then gets saved somewhere else. If you don't want people submitting their finished forms to SharePoint, which is the typical and normal way, then do you need to have the template in SharePoint at all? You can always publish the template to a network location that is shared for all users. You can link to that from SharePoint just like you could if it were in SharePoint itself.