thank you!
this pointed me in the general direction. I ended up passing a value into a ghost text box on the 2nd form, and on load, based on that value, it opened up the view I needed. Thanks for your help. Here was my solution for others with the same problem - I'm using VB.NET
dim path as string = "insert path"
dim newForm as XmlForm = Application.XmlForms.NewFromFormTemplate(path)
dim nav as XPathNavigator = newForm.MainDataSource.CreateNavigator().SelectSingleNode("insert xpath", newForm.NameSpaceManager)
nav.SetValue(1)
on the 2nd form on the Load event, it checks the value of the text box, if it's 1, then change views.