InfoPath Dev

Got a question.....

 Setup a Secondary Data Connection to submit to a list.  When you setup a form, it already has the "main submit" and I have configured it to close the form.   For the second data connection,  when i go to Tools>Submit Options> and the dialog box comes up with both of my data connections there in the drop down.  As stated, I had already configured the main submit to close the form, but as i go and change the second connection to leave the form open, it also changes the main submit to leave the form open.   Is this right?  And how do I separate the two?

Don't use Submit options.

Just add a random button control to your form and call this Submit. Add your actions in rules to that button. Then you can do whatever you want.