I was trying to paste the entire address of the Library in, and not just the name of the form library. i couldn't open it on my Department of VA computer because of an unsupported address, but watched it on my home machine, as i am a teleworker. i was successful in connecting to the form library, wrote a condition for an email to be sent, and it all worked perfectly.
Thanks for the assist, that 10 minute video replaced 8 hours+ of errors.
One thing i don't like is not being easily able to email the site owners permission group; i don't want to have to create every group in Outlook.
I also saw the post for a Forms Tester, Patrick is calling me tomorrow.