That is staggeringly brilliant!
My .xsf file didn't have the line for "send by mail" in it, but I got rid of the "Properties extension" node that you suggested, saved the file, went into design, went into form options | compatibility, set it to web browser form, published to SharePoint, and lo and behold, what was previously a clunky legacy form becomes a nifty browser enabled piece of loveliness - many, many, thanks.