You should be able to do this with a filter on the drop down options - select the first list for your users, then in the filter, the first drop down would be the user name from the first list, then "is equal to", then in the third drop down, use a formula. In the formula editor, pick the user name from the second list, and click the Filter Data button - this filter would be Role (in the second list) is equal to whatever field or value determines the role you want.
Hilary Stoupa
