Hi, we may not stop email or cancel email after one of 2 people Approve/Disapprove... Though, what we can do is -- add business process logic to avoid the issue.
Your form may already have 'Status' field, and we will use the status information
Logics:
1. when a person click Approve or Disapprove, change the State field value as "Approved" or "Disapproved". Or you may set State as "Stage1" before the approval, and "Stage2" after the approval or something like that
2. for "Approved" and "Disapproved" button, add Formatting Rules which hide the buttons if the form is already approved or disapproved using Status condition.
then the problem should be avoided, I think...