If you have a loop of rules that attempt to go deeper than 16 rule depths then your form will return that error.
It's OK we'll sort this out somehow!
Hopefully bwhite05 doesn't mind me saying this but
*I want to take this offline because it is extremely difficult and rather than confuse everyone with the workings it would be better to find the solution rather than to post every single message, eventually I hope we will have a solution that everyone can see what was done and how it was accomplished"
I will also post, in my own fashion a "how to" just in case anyone needs anything similar, assuming we find a solution.
OKAY?