InfoPath Dev

I have SharePoint lists that I want to update using InfoPath form.  I created a connection from InfoPath to the lists (it is setup as receive) and saved that connection on the SharePoint site.  When I create the form and add the connection it gets added as a secondary connection, not the main.  How do I convert the secondary connection to the Main connection so I can use the connection to query on and submit?

Even if you convert your secondary data connection to the main datasource, basically, you can't submit it to sharepoint. You have to use a tier solution or writing code to do that :here an article about that.

http://www.bizsupportonline.net/blog/2008/12/5-ways-to-submit-an-infopath-form-to-a-sharepoint-list/

Try the free trial of Qdabra dot com's qRules which supports roundtripping to ShP lists without code.