Thanks for the help
i tried to relink an older form in the form library, and the changes that appear on the new form did not take.
so to answer your other question here is what we are doing. on our form we have multiple check box list that allows the user to pick multiple items that affect a certain category, and we have created these check box list through a repeating table so the repeating table is set up to have a check box and a text field. then we go into the default values options under the Tool menu and create all the values of the check boxes by just right clicking on the set (check box/text field) and adding another below or above it. Then for the text fields we change the default value to the text we want. after this is done when form is in the view mode it shows a list of check boxes and their values.
the problem comes in when we need to change these values. the changes show up in the check box list on the new form but on the older ones it will still show what was orignally there when that form was published (so when we open up an older form in sharepoint). the changes could be minor such as a mispelled text being corrected or a complete text change.
hopefully this is much better discription of the problem we are having