That gets a little tricky, because you have to have a way to find out the number of days between today and the next Thursday in the week - InfoPath doesn't really offer anything out of the box for this. That leaves you with writing code or using something like qRules... or you may be able to find an existing web service that would get you the info you need - you need to be able to find out the day of the week for today, so you have a way to calculate how many days you'd need to add to it to get to next Thursday.... setting the time to 8 PM is just a matter of getting the date time format right - you want yyyy-MM-ddThh:mm:ss, like 2013-03-29T15:00:00