Great info Greg!!, thanks
just pointing to msdn info where "how to" copy code
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/bb509311.aspx
public void DeleteNil(XPathNavigator node)
{
if (node.MoveToAttribute(
"nil", "http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance"))
node.DeleteSelf();
}
// Access the main data source.
XPathNavigator myForm = MainDataSource.CreateNavigator();
// Select the field.
XPathNavigator myDate = myForm.SelectSingleNode("/my:myFields/my:myDate", NamespaceManager);
// Check for and remove the "nil" attribute.
DeleteNil(myDate);
// Build the current date in the proper format. (yyyy-mm-dd)
string curDate = DateTime.Today.Year + "-" + DateTime.Today.Month +
"-" + DateTime.Today.Day;
// Set the value of the myDate field.
myDate.SetValue(strCurDate);