What do you mean a 'personnal office panel'? If you're talking about a Windows Form application, then I don't think there is a way to interoperate except through the filesystem. The Windows Form could save a file and then the InfoPath form could read that file. Or you could setup a TCP/IP connection between the two and exchange data that way. Either way is going to make the form full trust. :(
By the way, I don't know if you've noticed or not but we now have a French forum :) I don't understand any of it, but from the looks of it there is a lot of activity there!
http://www.infopathdev.com/forums/forum.asp?FORUM_ID=55
Matt Faus / Microsoft InfoPath MVPQdabra® Software / Streamline data gathering to turn process into knowledge