Hi!
qRules will submit the mappings in the order they are in the mapping file.
So - you can map whatever list you wish first, so that the SharePoint IDs are generated and populated, then map those ID fields for the other list(s).
The forum kinda blew away your formatting in your post, so I'm having a hard time understanding how these lists would relate. But if you have any specific questions about how to map this, I'm happy to help - you can attach a file under the Options tab in a reply if you want to add any screenshots, etc.