Hi:
You can create a field and not show it in any views at all -- in your design task pane, look for the data source task pane. Right click the group you want to add the data field to and select "Add". You can access the field's properties in the same task pane -- right click on the field and select "Properties".
Your new field will need a default value that uses a double eval formula to "roll up" your repeating field.
However, looking back at your original question -- you simply want to promote the merged values from your field to the library the form is submitted to -- is that correct? If so, when you promote the property (either during the publishing process, or from Form Options / Property Promotion), and you select a repeating field or group, you should have an option (below the selected field) of what you'd like to do with that repeating data. By default, you'll get the first value, but you can select Sum (handy for numbers!) , Last (must be handy for something...) or Merge -- which is what you want to do. I think when merging, the values are separated by a semi-colon, so if it MUST be a space, you'll need to add a field and give a double eval formula a try.